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By Sober House Directory · Published October 26, 2026 · Last updated October 26, 2026

Sober living for women with children is a sober home where mothers in recovery live with their kids. These homes exist, but they take more calls to find. The main routes are Oxford Houses that accept women with children, family recovery homes run by treatment providers, and residential programs where mothers keep their children with them. Start with the women's sober homes in this directory, or your state's page below, and ask each one whether it takes children.

Why it matters to keep children with you

SAMHSA's guide to treatment for women states that "women who are with their children in treatment have better treatment outcomes in major life areas." The same guide notes the problem: "few residential programs allow mothers to have their children with them."

Where to find a home that takes children

Oxford Houses for women with children

Oxford House says "around 400 Oxford Houses for women accept women with children." On the official vacancy site, oxfordvacancies.com, filter by house type and choose "Women with children." Each listing shows how many open beds are for women with children. Our Oxford House vacancies guide explains how to call, interview and get voted in.

Family recovery homes and treatment programs

Some treatment providers run recovery homes or residential programs for mothers and children together. SAMHSA funds Pregnant and Postpartum Women programs, where women may live with their minor children while in treatment, and its 2026 grant requires those programs to offer sober housing that follows SAMHSA's best practices for recovery housing. States run their own programs too. In Iowa, for example, four more programs serving women and their children earned NARR Level IV certification in September 2026, according to the state's recovery housing page. Massachusetts runs Family Substance Abuse Shelters for homeless families.

To find one, ask your treatment provider or case manager, call your state's substance use agency, or call the SAMHSA National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357, which is free, confidential and open 24 hours a day.

Women's sober homes

If no family home is near you, ask the women's sober homes on your list whether they ever accept a child. Policies differ from home to home.

Questions to ask before you apply

Rules for children are set by each home, so they differ a lot. Ask:

  • How many children can I bring, and what ages do you accept?
  • Do I need to have legal custody, and do you work with child welfare caseworkers?
  • Where will my children sleep, and do we get our own room?
  • Is there child care, or help getting children to school?
  • What are the rules on visitors and on the other parent?
  • How much is rent for a mother and child, and what does it cover?

If you have an open child welfare case, tell your caseworker which home you are considering before you move.

Find sober homes by state

This directory does not yet have a filter for homes that accept children. Open your state's page, look at women's homes, and call to ask. For women-only results, use our women's sober living guide.

Paying for a home with your children

A sober home is housing, not treatment, so health insurance and Medicaid generally do not pay the rent. Many states have voucher programs that can cover the first weeks; see sober living vouchers. If you are pregnant or have young children, ask your state's substance use agency whether it funds family programs that include housing.

Next step

Make a short list today: two Oxford Houses that accept children, one family program through your treatment provider, and one women's sober home that will consider a child. If you are ready to live in a women's home without children for now, apply to Vanderburgh Sober Living.

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